How to get your lover back: Winning Strategies for Starting Over (and for the best results before)

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  • David M says:
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    review is from: How to get your lover back: Winning Strategies for Starting Over (and for the best results before) (Paperback)

    If my relationship deteriorated, I was very frustrated trying to get the help of consultants (influenced by 12 step programs) who have spoken to me about my co-dependency, and “what was wrong with me that I wanted to have my partner back ? ” When I ‘was really in a lot of pain, I could hear how they think! “Oh no, not even a few that without realizing they were doomed to Got to get them met,” While it is true that my lover and I have a lot of areas where we need to improve, we had a lot of good things for us, and I was glad to use an approach that has allowed me to find my strength in order to improve the areas where I was weak in the relationship. I’ve never been convinced that want to work in a co-dependent relationship forever. May Stephan Levine, John Welwood, Gail and Hugh Prather, Barry and Joyce Vissel and others all speak of a relationship be a path to enlightenment, and all agree, I think there are times when a person has with the relationship. This book shows you how.

    What I liked best about this book is that the ideas of the author has allowed me an * active * approach to untangle the knots in my relationship. The approach has to do something to me – internal work on myself that made a difference in my relationship. He did not listen to my partner.

    I bought the book when I read in Chapter 1, the author writes: “A relationship can be lost, a lost opportunity for growth,” you will not hear a lot of people .. (And that is what I felt that I did not want to, I clutched my lover.If cling, I want to stop.) And in Chapter 2, “100% love to your lover back,” I enjoyed reading the author’s definition the labor of love “, acute care and concern for the life and growth of another human being.” And so was my favorite chapter Chapter 9, “Dealing with the beloved resistant”, where the author uses many examples from real Life seems to make a living writing. Yes, that was my Beloved strong, and yes, I think that this chapter would be good to develop. I do not quite understand with the reader 29 March 1999 in Irving, Texas agree. He said that the book advises practicing “positive visualization.” No, he does not say visualization. He says the practice of creating positive moments. The visualization is a technique that could help, and mention the book only briefly. He said rather work on creating moments of love with your loved one, even if you hate your sweetheart now. It may be that this book does not say exactly what to do when your partner else is involved in a long-term relationship with someone, and they can not or will not say what happened, but I felt that the books promote create positive moments covered this scenario extension. In other words, you can if you really want to try to get your lover back when they are in a long term relationship with someone, it would only be a matter of very careful about your chances of creating positive moments . maximize (But if your partner was really happy in this relationship, love is not 100% to try to force them out of a situation that they are happy with, that is the question.) On 22 July 2000 from the U.S. player may be right when she says that the book of love to attract addicts, but one of the main points of this book is that to love the show “addiction” (is that the dependency can really love – Charlotte Kasl, an important figure in the movement co-dependency, refutes this idea in his book Women, Sex and Addiction) really does not work. Make a pest of your car does not work. Not suffocate. Otherwise own love and do not hold your energy does not work. Love is defined in this book to your partner “acute care and concern” show and keep your poverty of the street, while you are trying to create positive intimate moments. Only 100% pure love, love, including yourself, can such moments. I think this is one of the few books that some practical techniques on how to prevent your relationship from getting another statistic of + divorce rate of 50%. (I’m not necessarily opposed to divorce, but why is it so many of us to stand up and say, “` till death do us part “if we fail in life height?) This book has helped me to understand what goes wrong when people get close and gave me ideas of what “no one can do for you both together again.” Maybe you can not change your partner, but you can keep an eye on your own reactive patterns. (Watch you not in the business of the partners does not get. Injured) Amazon has an interview with the author ….. I’ve heard that the author of several other books, including one called Radical intimacy work: how to dance in harmony with your own life force, and he has also recently a recorded “book on tape” version How to get your lover back. I have a website for this book …… Apparently, the author also offers a retreat … more style =

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  • L. Hilton says:
    134 of 143 people found this review helpful
    good for some, not for most 20 May 2005
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    review refers to: How to get your lover back: Winning Strategies for Starting Over (and for the best results before) (Paperback)

    This book would be very helpful if you are one, of your partner were to leave, or if leaving your companion because he / she felt misunderstood.
    For those of us that have been landfilled, (which is probably most people looking at the book) I recommend them to get to other books on the train to and focus on your life, although I’m sure that’s not what you want to hear., but often the best way to get someone back is to them.
    women should be especially careful with the ideas in the book, as men often feel trapped and suffocated in relationships. (sending him roses every day = bad idea!) Remember that you do not want it to be glad that you away, you want them through how to do it without be surprised!, making him wonder if he has made a mistake, in comparison confirmed in his mind that you are in need of inserting /, etc
    . the book contains no details., it seems to have been written for married couples living together, like to recommend it to your ex-day, that’s not true in my case seems to see. There really is no advice on how to get your ex to contact us if you do not live together, and have no reason / they talk about him more.
    It has some good relationship advice in general, but overall it left me still wondering what to do. Instead obsessed, I bought “How to heal a broken in 30 days’ heart, which is more useful.
    I guess if you move and possibly from other people, then your ex back, it will be a nice surprise (or will realize that the spell is broken and might not even want to come back). Either way you win.

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  • D. McLin "Deep Inhaler of Historical Fiction" says:
    51 of 54 found this review helpful
    this stuff really works! 5 July 2005
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    review is from: How to get your lover back: Winning Strategies for Starting Over (and for the best results before) (Paperback)

    The best thing about this book is that it can earn you some control over what appears to be an experience much like driving a car on a cliff driving at 100 mph, while wearing a blindfold.
    I for the first time as condemning Your Lover back to the on-set relationship to failure. It worked then, but I finally realized that I did not want the relationship was reading. I again a few years later, a very good relationship store feels like it is getting. Both times put the guide in this book provided.
    There is not just a book on how to win back the love of your loved one, but also provides guidance to really develop as a human being is capable of a long-term relationship. It has helped me to understand how to change my behavior to get what I wanted for myself and my relationship and needed.
    place begging and supplication, coach Harris the reader to destructive behaviors, this typical “needy” co-dependent behaviors that change your beloved further advance – to call as in competition with a new person in your life, caving or contact your lover, and the creation of negative experiences, if you communicate, to name a few topics.
    Instead these common mistakes, you will assess the security relationship grow to understand the concept of giving 100% love, and gain a perspective on how to change your behavior so that you have a stable, reliable person who wants lover the image of what your need is and

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