Is it wrong to start liking someone you play a online game with?

Question by Christina D: Is it wrong to start liking someone you play a online game with?
I play second life(a lot like sims but online). A free online game. I have a HOT character and well I have seen a real life picture of the guy I am dating in the game. We get along so well and I can tell he is being himself cuz I know a lot about him in real life. I know I feel foolish for even asking this but it is possible to fall for someone in a game and actually like them in real life too. If you dont know what second life is I can help anymore than I did.

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Answer by Osiris
I wouldn’t say it was wrong, and certainly these things can happen…dont worry too much about it……continue having fun.

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  • dancerbaby1111 says:

    you know what? that happened to my friend but you cant really like then truely because you dont know them well. but your not alone dont even worry. just find somebody you really know like at your school or something.

  • trudycaulfield says:

    there is nothing wrong with that, But however, I would be very carefull if i were you because there are alot of wirdos out there, and they try to stalk you and stuff, Soo be careful

  • bananayell says:

    Yes. It is wrong. You don’t even know this person…you only see their picture…and that might not even be them! Visit this website! You will LOVE it! And you can get a ring to show and tell everyone about ….online safety!!

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  • natasha m says:

    Of course, it is possible to like someone online. You just have to be smart about it. First of all, you said that you’ve seen a picture of this person. How do you know it is really the same person. The good thing about being online is that you can pretend to be whoever. Be careful. You don’t know this person.Have you met him in person??You do know if he is genuine about anything.That is how many young people end up dead, because they totally believe this ciber person. Watch youself and don’t do anything that you may regret

  • 456tbj says:

    It all depends on what you are willing to do. Usually these relationships have great distance between them and that can be an issue. I have made some good friends on line and had a chance to talk to a female friend about alot of personal stuff but in reality I knew we could just stay buds because I am from Tx. and she is from Florida so lets be real. So your answer will depend on you

  • scholargurl911 says:

    yeah! that means that you are really desperate. unless they are cute

  • precede2005 says:

    There is nothing wrong in it,but while you are playing a game how can you concentrate both way.If you are enjoying second life so what? I am sure you cannot handle both side equally.It’s just a long distance relationship-How can you persuade him to relocate or how you yourself can relocate yourself.These days Lot immigration problems occurred.If you are within the same country-thinkable.Otherwise just keep going for your pleasure.

  • garcia b says:

    yes it is wrong,cause you don”t know that person physical features. he might be lying to you about what he do and how he look. people personality are different you should see and you and get to know him better and you can go on dates with him then you decide what you want../

  • luvracin_ia2 says:

    Just be careful, listen to your heart, and know what you want out of a realtionship!
    OK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED………ALL GUYS SHOULD READ!
    Ladies: this will make you tear up :)
    fellas: read it, all of it! :)
    1-touch their waist
    2-talk to her
    3-share secrets
    4-give her your jacket
    5-kiss them slowly
    are you remembering this?
    6-hug her
    7-hold her
    8-laugh with her
    9-invite her somewhere
    10-let her be with you when you’re with your friends
    keep reading
    11-smile with her
    12-take pictures with her
    13-pull her onto your lap
    14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back
    15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved
    are you thinking about someone?
    16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her
    17-kiss her unexpectedly
    18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST
    19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
    20-tell her the way you feel about her!
    20 u need to show her you mean it too
    21-kiss her on the lips
    22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff
    23-tell her what feels good
    24-make her feel loved
    25-buy her stuff. small things can still help
    we might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things
    26-don’t lie to her
    27-dont cheat on her
    28-take her anywhere she wants
    29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her
    30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you
    are you still reading this u better be its important
    31. Hold her close when she’s cold and she can hold you too.
    32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
    33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).
    34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
    35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her
    remember this next time you are with her
    36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
    37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
    38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
    39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
    40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
    MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHE’S LOVED
    41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
    42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
    43. Take her for long walks at night.
    44. Always Remind her how much you love her.
    you’ll never know when she needs just a little more love
    ————————————————————————————————————-
    Some expectations of a good boyfriend
    12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.
    11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.
    10) Kisses you every chance he gets.
    9) Holds you close when your cold.
    8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.
    7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)
    6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you’ll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he’ll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.
    5) When you complain that your neck hurts he’ll massage it for you.
    4) When people diss you he stands up for you.
    3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.
    2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.
    1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)
    ————————————————————————————————————————————-
    If you think the one you love is worried about you two having a relationship then do the following:
    1. Relax. Dont think so much.
    2. With the parents, speak only when you know exactly what you’re going to say and you know they will reply well to what you have said.
    3. With the ex. If you think she’s still into him ask her. Dont be accusing though that could be bad. Say something like: if you say you like only me ill believe you I just want to hear it from you.
    4. Good luck and dont forget to chill.
    Here’s a list out of my little black book. I hope it helps and Good Luck in your journey! ~Alison~

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