Q&A: How do I spice up my intimacy with my boyfriend?
Question by Minniemouse: How do I spice up my intimacy with my boyfriend?
SO we just had our first baby and now we haven’t had sex in 5 months! I am such a passionate person and I love it when men show intimacy and passion in a relationship. My boyfriend doesn’t try to do anything sexy for me and our love life is gone! Any advise for me. I tried everything just about. I need male advice as well.
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Answer by sk4youth
Should have gotten married first.
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He shouldn’t have gone into the delivery room.
Have you tried just cornering him and taking his belt off and going to town on his wang?..
Or better yet, sticking your pinky in his stinky?
Or… You could talk to him. Jesus.
Buy him a couple hookers.
May not spice up Your intimacy, but will spice up the heell outta his!
Buy a sexy outfit, or just surprise him with something you know he likes. Like, if he enjoys getting his dick sucked, do it.
Lose the weight you put on
I rarely agree with Oakville, but there you go….
Many of my friends are guys with kids and each has said that while the “miracle of birth” is fascinating, it puts a dent in their sex life for a while as they either a) can’t get the image out of their head, b) feel like they hurt their wife c) are scared to touch their wife and get her pregnant again or d) have the idea that they shouldn’t interfere in mommy/baby time.
You need a date weekend…at least 3 days and nights baby free to reconnect. Hopefully you have eager grandparents or aunts and uncles itching to babysit. Five months is the perfect age for baby to go to a sitter for a bit.
Most likely he went into the delivery room right?
just kidding
Yead it does happen I will recommend to go buy a kinky stuff like a nice outfit, get all dressy for him, and then to get him in the mood kiss him, buy massage oil do him a massage, and go down on him and he will et in the mood to the 69 and more.
and if that doesnt work, than sorry but I will go and buy a Bunny dildo
It’s going to be hard. Many times, especially when unmarried couples have children, the man tends to get bored or discouraged with the child bearing and rearing and sees that he has lost his freedom. Many of these men just don’t feel good in the relationship they are in. This may or may not be how your b/f is, but just so you know, this may be how he’s feeling.
A lot of things may have changed and so I would suggest showing him that you two are the same people who cared enough to have a baby together. If possible, try to get a sitter for you baby. If the baby takes formula then you can leave at anytime and go on a date. Make it fun and all about you two. Don’t talk about the baby. Don’t think about the baby. Just get out and have a good time.
To ad intimacy to the equation, do yourself up. Be sexy and show him you want to be intimate. Have sex in a fun and different place. Show him that just because you two had a baby doesn’t mean your life loses excitement. You can’t just sit back and hope for him to become a hopeless romantic. Take him out and fulfill his fantasies.