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A wonderful guide to active fatherhood and your much need participation in your daughter’s life,
As the father of three daughters (and three sons), I had a strong reaction to this book. It is terrific in the way it guides and urges fathers to be active and involved in the lives of their daughters. It doesn’t provide a list of detailed actions you must take to have a successful relationship or a healthy child. Instead, it provides ten needs that can best be met by you as her father as she grows into a wonderful woman and makes her own way in the world.
When a father realizes the way her relationship with him and his with her defines so much of how she will define the male-female world in her life, it gives one pause. Daughters need heroes; she learns a lot about love from her father, she can learn important qualities such as humility, faith in God, and standing up for herself. How a father protects and defends her has a big impact on her self-image. The way a father demonstrates practicality and tenacity can provide a great example when hard times inevitably come. And he should be the kind of man he would like his daughter to marry.
Above all, he needs to help her get connected and stay connected with life. Never let her drift into a shell and withdraw from the world. This can’t be done by command. It is a participatory experience that requires the father as much as the mother.
This is a fine book with lots of good anecdotes and examples. A great read for anyone still raising daughters and a terrific gift (if given the right way) to a new father of a little girl.
Recommended!
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|Even if you are already a great Daddy…,
The more you know; the more you know you don’t know.
This is a powerful book for fathers who are already great Dads… It will validate who you are and encourage you to keep doing what you are doing. It will help forge your mind around your absolute responsibilities as the father of a girl and young lady. It will remind you that baby girls, young ladies, and women have only ONE Daddy.
I have read other father/daughter books, including Dr. Leman’s book (which I also recommend in another Amazon review). Like all advice, one must temper the input from outside sources. Dr. Leman and Dr. Meeker’s books, however, are treasures that you can simply gorge yourself on… without regard to having to sift the psychobabble and tenuous opinions with little research and/or validity.
Dr. Meeker’s book, in particular, is superlative from the standpoint of a no-holds barred, in-your-face reality check of the awesome responsibilities associated with being your daughter’s Daddy. Whereas Dr. Leman’s book was more of a semi-autobiographical and quasi-emotional journey of the Daddy-daughter relationship, Dr. Meeker’s book is much more robust, profound, and, in some case, quantitatively advanced.
Best of all, though, Dr. Meeker is a daughter; a former girl; a woman; and a doctor. She has lived the life of a Daddy’s girl (not the spoiled type – but, rather, the type who can look back upon her youthful Daddy interactions with fond appreciation). She has also lived the life of a doctor who has talked with, counseled, and commiserated with many, many girls and young ladies… THIS is an insight worth a King’s ransom.
This book is very, very special. If you want to understand the touchy-feely side of how a Daddy affects his daughter’s life, buy Dr. Leman’s book. If you want to cover the full gamut of your superlative responsibility as a Daddy; if you want to delve deep into your daughter’s eyes and see what she sees, wants, and needs… buy THIS book.
By the way, I HIGHLY recommend giving this book to both genders, as well as any other adult male who has daughters.
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|Good book to add to your arsenal – some facts, some opinions.,
I have a three-year-old daughter and thought this would be a good Doctor’s guide about raising a daughter. I found it to be interesting and Dr. Meeker makes some geniune points about the psychological make-up of young women and girls (although she is Family M.D. and not a Psychiatrist or Psychologist).
Some of the end tends to get a little preachy about God and the like, which you see coming over the horizon about midway through the book. Nevertheless, if there’s one thing we know about people who are religious and those who are not, it’s unlikely that a child-rearing book is going to convert you one way or the other; so, if you don’t agree, that section won’t kill you. I’m living proof.
In my opinion, this is an enjoyable book with some very relatable anecdotes and a lot of food for thought about the oversexualized nature of pop culture and the dangers facing our daughters every day.
As a father who tends to see things left of center in most cases, when it comes to youth (especially our daughters), I couldn’t agree more.
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