Q&A: How do I get over something that happened to me a long time ago (three years ago)? {rsstitle}

Question by mickeygirl314: How do I get over something that happened to me a long time ago (three years ago)?
This is a quiz I took and I answered true to most of them:
I don’t show my anger about everything that makes me mad, but when I do – look out.
True False
2. I still get angry when I think of the bad things people did to me in the past.
True False
3. Waiting in line, or waiting for other people, really annoys me.
True False
4. I fly off the handle easily.
True False
5. I often find myself having heated arguments with the people who are closest to me.
True False
6. I sometimes lie awake at night and think about the things that upset me during the day.
True False
7. When someone says or does something that upsets me, I don’t usually say anything at the time, but later spend a lot of time thinking up cutting replies I could and should have made.
True False
8. I find it very hard to forgive someone who has done me wrong.
True False
9. I get angry with myself when I lost control of my emotions.
True False
10. People really irritate me when they don’t behave the way they should, or when they act like they don’t have the good sense of a head of lettuce.
True False
11. If I get really upset about something, I have a tendency to feel sick later, either with a weak spell, headache, upset stomach, or diarrhea.
True False
12. People I’ve trusted have often let me down, leaving me feeling angry or betrayed.
True False
13. When things don’t go my way, I get depressed.
True False
14. I am apt to take frustration so badly that I cannot put it out of my mind.
True False
15. I’ve been so angry at times I couldn’t remember things I said or did.
True False
16. After arguing with someone, I hate myself.
True False
17. I’ve had trouble on the job because of my temper.
True False
18. When riled up, I often blurt out things I later regret saying.
True False
19. Some people are afraid of my bad temper.
15. I’ve been so angry at times I couldn’t remember things I said or did.
True False
16. After arguing with someone, I hate myself.
True False
17. I’ve had trouble on the job because of my temper.
True False
18. When riled up, I often blurt out things I later regret saying.
True False
19. Some people are afraid of my bad temper.
True False
20. When I get angry, frustrated or hurt, I comfort myself by eating or using alcohol or other drugs.
True False
21. When someone hurts or frustrates me, I want to get even.
True False
22. I’ve gotten so angry at times that I’ve become physically violent, hitting other people or breaking things.
True False
23. At times, I’ve felt angry enough to kill.
True False
24. Sometimes I feel so hurt and alone I feel like committing suicide.
True False
25. I’m a really angry person, and I know I need help learning to control my temper and angry feelings because it has already caused me a lot of problems.
If you see some of things I write on the internet, I am the girl with a crazy since of humor, who is Christian, always angry at men, yet always hating being a women, has a strong since of justice, etc. When I see someone acting nasty I feel nasty. Especially when they remind me of the people from my old school. And when someone takes advantage of being beautiful or rich, they think that automatically means they can trash and humiliate other people. So I take my anger out on them.
What happened to accepting others for who they are? Why is everyone telling each other they should change? That you should shave, that they should wear make up, they should waste hundreds of dollars on expensive clothing, and if they don’t, then it’s their fault for being bullied, they could have prevented it, we had every right to treat like shit because you’re UGLY.
Why am I always pissed at men? Because they make me hate me! They make me feel ashamed. I don’t look good enough, I don’t act good enough. I can’t even enjoy being a girl anymore! I can’t enjoy heterosexual romance novels/movies/mangas anymore..
I used to get along with guys. I had a lot of guy friends and they never ever treated me like I was different. Until middle school. In middle school, people aren’t people. They are boys and girls. Ugly girls, pretty girls. Preps, jocks, emos, punks, sluts, nerds, and if you aren’t any of those lables you are a hipster.
Sex must be a curse. Boobs, hips and pms especially because when I got those all of my cousins started treating me differently(A girl not a person THATS IT), and my Dad never treated me the same. He wouldn’t look at me and started walking around the house acting like a fucking redneck douchebag like the assholes at my school. Giving me shit about things that never mattered before…I was clearly miserable when I was thirteen going through all that bullying and he mocked me right in my face. Then he starts saying all these things that he KNOWS I take personally, all these arrogant opinions

Best answer:

Answer by Neha Ahty
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One Comment/Review

  • Aurora says:

    I went through a phase like that in high school. I’m now middle-aged, and have given up on the Game – it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made! My closest friends, all of whom have been divorced at least once, tell me I’m not missing much. I go to snowboard camp when I can, and flirt outrageously with guys young enough to be my sons. They love it!

    Yes, I still get flack from people who used to know me in high school, since I never married. I just tell them where to get off.

    Regarding your former friends – are you sure you’re not acting differently around them? Try giving to those guys without asking for anything, and see what happens (I mean flirting and enjoying the pleasure of their company without them asking you for a date).

    You and your father may need counseling. It sounds like he’s uncomfortable with his daughter growing up.

    If all else fails, as soon as you turn 18, you’re free to explore other worlds. I discovered the whole world isn’t Oakland, CA. People hold different attitudes everywhere, so it makes no sense to trap yourself into one place.

    Best of luck to you!

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