The Cougar Question: Should Older Women Date Younger Men?

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  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    For me this is not so much the problem, for me it is the choice of holding for divine love or having 40-50 lusts of women per year, this is my option. It’s as loving bread but having all the types, therefore, a type of bread is taken for granted, but to hold for one that captures you keeps you away from thought of other bread, mine is Lavash. I’m not comparing women to bread. I’ve seen the lusts of life ultimately fulfilling of heart as have loved a few times, each time growing stronger.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    Personally, I think sex is a small part of attraction, because making deepest love to love, is mesmerizing. Sometimes there is older men with better genetics, then some younger in age. It’s also relevant to breaking the stereotypical mindset which society builds for us & becoming a blend of deep depth & variation from heart.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    Lust has an expiry date & becomes a fix, if you lust a woman, there will always be other women that can capture you in this area, so it fades, hence further lusts. Love doesn’t lose memory, & tries to develop within 2 as 1, embracing for good & bad.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This is more to do in terms of longevity, different, phases of connection. With age gap there is less common different passion adapts, too much in common not always so good. The problem with some of these marriages, is the 2 people are not always basing on love, or perhaps lusts, & have not developed inner self & also can lose variation passion because of this. Remember Love is not just physical presence, but when apart also, love fights to stay together & evolve, lusts seeks for further lusts.

  • DevilRaptorB says:

    really ? a divorce rate of 50% ? weren’t these marrigies based on so called love ? what I find annoying that if the divorce was between 2 people close in age , then others well say that they simply had problem that doesn’t involve age, but if it was between 2 who have an age gap, age is always to blame

  • Brenda B says:

    The compatibility with younger men is more about having more in common. New music, new ways of thinking, more positive attitudes, full of life and more open to new possibilities. Sex is a very small part of the attraction.

  • Brenda B says:

    This is exactly why so many older women prefer younger men. It works much better. After going through the frustration with men over 40, a younger man approached me and it worked. There are a small number of older men who ARE still in good health, minimally damaged by life who would be great to find. I spare myself the time and trouble by sticking with what works.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    No, it’s based on experiences i’ve been use to seeing, but apologize for making an assumption. But also an assumption that there are no males past 40 who can hold you attention,i’m not close to this age, but have seen there is 40 year old men with great passion, genetics etc, but this based on your experience.But the last sentence does indicate you prefer more energetic person, which is good for a lover. For sure connection of heart, expressing variation, gelling together is really important.

  • Brenda B says:

    That is an incorrect assumption made by many.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    Of course, but there is a different motive on the female side 99% of time in terms of 50 year old males or ‘male cougars’ like when i see women with men of ages 50, 60 in age or just in looks, genetics, it’s very one dimensional, but a job that pays well for sure.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    Lol basically you want to be taken to heaven, marathon passion.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    Not really, in my opinion. If i slept with an older woman, I don’t think i’d gain much, if anything & it would just be for a fix, release, explode, fast paced. For with love i’m not satisfied unless she’s taken to a heaven she never knew existed, naturally. Through this you can adapt her to be a great lover through making great love to her for a long time & grow as people together through love.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    They don’t play mind games as much, however do but you don’t notice, not so obvious. Also remember, they are the unhappy ones in this moment deep down, where as you can attract possibly many women of all ages down, unless she has great genetics & extreme beauty harder for her to do the same.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    To me it’s women who have regrets, going through crisis & see young horny guys with little self value to have common sex. It’s a good fix perhaps, but not really fulfilling of heart, unless rare occasion where it turns deeper & love.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This is frequent, perhaps you need to not expect, find inner peace, improve your frequency of what real woman attracts you, fulfills your heart, not in looks only, but decency, loyalty,passion for. Even if it is only 1% of your city, hold out for this, What you say is true. Men seriously need to stop following this stereotype views which are brilliant for the divorce industry. Men should value themselves.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This is really ego label. Sometimes women want to be this powerful male figure, & then a good decent , humble woman when it’s suits them. I look at the decent sacred treasure, in deepest depth for overall, & long haul, not how much she can pay me, or how beautiful she is but love first, then build around this. This is coming from someone living in a sick society with 50% divorce rate & perhaps 45% not deepest heart mesmerized. The priorities are mixed up to say the least.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This was 8 months ago, are you still with her, I ask.?

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    That’s really good you are blessed with good genetic’s, I have also. But don’t mistake love for being a lover. Many young men may lust you, but I think you should be patient 9not that you aren’t) to know someone deep & hold self as a treasure, many women good through a crisis with this age, & screw around because of what they regret to. Whilst good to have fun, this is merely a fix, compared to deepest heart love for someone. This is just what I feel.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This happens a lot with self denial, hence the Problem with women is men can be true & men should read, to gain further understanding, Women should not use this to make men a scapegoat goat, or to cover their imperfections. Some could spit, act like a pig, but if they have a few billions to pay, all of this becomes bullshit to some women, hollow value, this book gets burned.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    That’s not true older women can play games, how do you think they became available to the younger guy, they’re partnership was a game, got a pay off & want else. This often the case, relevant to what i’ve experienced & seen. The rest of your points are valid for sure, it can occur this way, as people develop self at different stages, after neglecting inner-self, each to their own paths.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    To be honest it’s about depth of heart, stamina, genetics, & ability to fulfill overall. The older women often do not care purely for one reason with younger guy. Usually have committed for purely financial reason & finally want deep love, real beauty, etc, I’ve had this often & with older women offering to dine me, wine me, gifts, basically pay for me. I look at how they got to this moment, (saw what they were with) & want no part of it. I hold self as sacred treasure, as for love first.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    This is a sick reality, but one I don’t associate with. So when one woman deceives me, & goes for this. Then stalks em for 9 months, harassing, I think is the problem really always men. I think this is disrespectful to women who have values, & can hold themselves accountable for their actions then say it’s all his fault blah blah, women aren’t dogs that need constant treats, pats on head & attention, at least with some.:/

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    It’s also amazing how some women want a guy to be psychic like where they are & what’s on they’re mind when they liberally date others, when ill & make excuse but when one prevails deep into this, they’re like think like a man.:/ Very few women but I have come across.

  • AskKalbiMehtap says:

    I actually read his book problem with women-men, whilst I agree with a lot, & faired quite well considering very ill last year, he tends to be slightly one sided, which is better to sell to a female audience that read more. Many women don’t deserve the perfect adaptation he advises for men, & really some men should have much higher standards of women. He loses horribly to the basic, be, ugly, rude, disabled, taunt someone who love, sexual dysfunction, & bald, but purely pay for a woman.

  • chulachic1967 says:

    Im 46..sexy Latina..curvatious..natural..long black hair..dress sexy..im myself..dont need impress any men..dont matter thier age..I hve a duaghtr whos 23..all the time yung men think we’re sisters..I tell thm shes my duaghtr.thy dont blieve me..but Ya….yung men approach me cuase I lok yung..thn thy find out my age..so its not tht I lok 4 yung men..dont get me wrong thier hot..lol!.hve fun ladys why not thy do…but men close my age R sexy 2..so dont hate on cougars we all need AMOR3

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